LisaBinDaCity

The ongoing search for Mr. Right. Sometimes I wonder if it will EVER end. I never thought it would be so hard to find the right man. “I have been dating since I was 15, I’m tired of this, where IS he???” That quote is from Charlotte in “Sex and the City.” I know just how she feels. Dating is exhausting. I’m bored with it. There have been 4 men in my life that I believed were Mr. Right. They were not. I have watched many of my friends fall in love, get married and have children. Still being single at this point in my life was NOT THE GAME PLAN. I definitely could have “settled” several times with someone just to be married but I chose not to. I wanted to hold out for the elusive Mr. Right.

OK time to toot my own horn, please forgive my lack of modesty… I’m a pretty woman. I’m nice, smart and fun. People like me. I’m reasonably evolved. I’m unpretentious and very down to earth. I’m not looking for a perfect man cause there is no such thing. But I am looking for a man who despite any faults he might possess will be the perfect man for me. I want a lover and a best friend. Someone who will be there for the good and bad stuff as I will be for him. A nice guy who is funny, smart and kind. OK and the shallow moment… I must be attracted to him. It would be cool if he was drop dead gorgeous but it’s not necessary. He just has to be attractive to me. Looks fade but the rest of the good stuff lasts.

I have decided to take a break from dating. I’m going to concentrate on myself for a while. Everyone tells me that is the best way to meet Mr. Right but I’m not doing it for that reason. I just want to take care of ME and then hopefully everything else will take care of itself.

TO BE CONTINUED…