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		<title>Happiness and Joy Running Amok</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 13:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy New Year to all of you out there in Blog Land. Wishing you happiness, good health, prosperity, joy and peace.
My 2009 ended with on a wonderful note &#8211; HCFG and I are engaged!!! We are very excited and are looking forward to our future life together.
And a fa la la la la to you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy New Year to all of you out there in Blog Land. Wishing you happiness, good health, prosperity, joy and peace.</p>
<p>My 2009 ended with on a wonderful note &#8211; HCFG and I are engaged!!! We are very excited and are looking forward to our future life together.</p>
<p>And a fa la la la la to you too!</p>
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		<title>I say &#8220;Chief&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2007/02/i-say-chief/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Feb 2007 13:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a Chief

or an Indian?

This has been on my mind a lot lately. A friend and I were talking about our exes and their different personalities. Susan said her ex boyfriend was much too passive for her. While she liked that she usually got her way, she also wanted him to initiate things, i.e. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you a Chief</p>
<p><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c397/lisabindacity/chief-small.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting"/></a></p>
<p>or an Indian?</p>
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<p>This has been on my mind a lot lately. A friend and I were talking about our exes and their different personalities. Susan said her ex boyfriend was much too passive for her. While she liked that she usually got her way, she also wanted him to initiate things, i.e. &#8220;be the man.&#8221;</p>
<p>My comment?</p>
<p>&#8220;Some of us are Chiefs, and some of us are Indians.&#8221;</p>
<p>I believe this to be true. Some people are leaders, aka Chief&#8217;s, while others are followers, aka Indians. Both men and women can fit in either category. I think people who are Chief&#8217;s tend to be more assertive in their lives. They are often successful, driven, Type A personalities. They may also be somewhat challenging roommates. </p>
<p>Indians tend to be more passive in their approach. They often look for Chief&#8217;s to &#8220;run the show&#8221; as it were. I think they look to other, perhaps stronger people to lead. I would imagine they are much easier to cohabitate with on a long term basis.</p>
<p>Does it matter? Is it possible for two Chief&#8217;s to have a successful relationship? Or is there constant head butting? What about two Indians? Can they live peacefully without someone being the leader? Or is one of them quietly the Big Kahuna?</p>
<p>I believe a lot of people think that men are always Chief&#8217;s. I used to feel that way too. But I have met quite a few male Indians, and even more female Chief&#8217;s. </p>
<p>Have times changed, or is that the way it&#8217;s always been?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m starting to feel like I&#8217;m in <a href="http://www.smartatlove.typepad.com/">Annie Dennison territory</a> here. So what about you, are you a Chief or an Indian? And more importantly, WHY?</p>
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		<title>Play It Again and Again, Sam</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2007/01/play-it-again-and-again-sam/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2007 15:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things I NEVER get tired of hearing:
I Love You.
You do great work.
Have you lost weight?
Oh Baby, you&#8217;re the best.
You make me really happy.
You look hot.
I washed the dishes and cleaned the kitchen. Why don&#8217;t you just relax and watch TV?
This job will pay double your rate.
Let&#8217;s hear a few of yours!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things I NEVER get tired of hearing:</p>
<p>I Love You.</p>
<p>You do great work.</p>
<p>Have you lost weight?</p>
<p>Oh Baby, you&#8217;re the best.</p>
<p>You make me really happy.</p>
<p>You look hot.</p>
<p>I washed the dishes and cleaned the kitchen. Why don&#8217;t you just relax and watch TV?</p>
<p>This job will pay double your rate.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s hear a few of yours!</p>
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		<title>The Heat is On</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2006/07/the-heat-is-on/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jul 2006 16:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You turn a corner, you are ready for the next challenge, and then it happens. Just like that.
When you didn&#8217;t expect it. And suddenly, there he is.
Oh baby, you rock my world, you fire me up.
Yowza.
Say hello to my new hunk o&#8217; burning love. BOTH OF THEM.
Denis Leary of Rescue Me

And Gilby Clarke of Rock [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You turn a corner, you are ready for the next challenge, and then it happens. Just like that.</p>
<p>When you didn&#8217;t expect it. And suddenly, there he is.</p>
<p><em>Oh baby, you rock my world, you fire me up.</em></p>
<p>Yowza.</p>
<p>Say hello to my new hunk o&#8217; burning love. BOTH OF THEM.</p>
<p>Denis Leary of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rescue_Me_(TV_series)">Rescue Me</a></p>
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<p>And Gilby Clarke of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rockstar_supernova">Rock Star: Supernova</a></p>
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<p>Is it getting hot in here?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0654110">Clive</a>, who?</p>
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		<title>Those Shmoopie People</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2005/12/those-shmoopie-people/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2005 10:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have some friends who have just fallen madly in love. They moved on from the single life and have become  scary pod people  an adoring couple.
&#8220;Oh wow, YOU breathe air? I breathe air too! AWWW, that&#8217;s so sweet!&#8221;
&#8220;Honey, that is just SO amazing. Yet another thing we have in common!&#8221;
Excuse me while [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have some friends who have just fallen madly in love. They moved on from the single life and have become <del datetime="2005-12-04T10:23:26+00:00"> scary pod people</del>  an adoring couple.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh wow, YOU breathe air? I breathe air too! AWWW, that&#8217;s so sweet!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Honey, that is just SO amazing. Yet another thing we have in common!&#8221;</p>
<p>Excuse me while <del datetime="2005-12-04T10:23:26+00:00">I hurl over the balcony</del> I take a minute to be happy for them.</p>
<p>How the heck does this happen? How do seemingly normal people become  <a href="http://www.movieprop.com/tvandmovie/Seinfeld/terms.htm"><strong>Shmoopie people</strong></a>? And it&#8217;s not just the women either. The men are right there with them.</p>
<p>&#8220;Baby I just want to snuggle with you all night long.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;You do? Mwah! I love the way you hold me and don&#8217;t mind when I steal all the covers.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re worth being cold for Boo Boo.&#8221;</p>
<p>OH MY GAWD.  I have entered <del datetime="2005-12-04T10:23:26+00:00">the twilight zone</del>, <del datetime="2005-12-04T10:23:26+00:00">a parallel universe</del>  the land of <del datetime="2005-12-04T10:50:31+00:00">gross</del> happy couples. </p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t beat them then join them I guess.</p>
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		<title>Finally!</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2005/11/finally/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2005 01:37:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was starting to think it might never happen but it has. My dreams are finally coming true. 
I&#8217;m absolutely crazy about someone!  Isn&#8217;t that AWESOME???
And because I KNOW you guys are gonna ask, (and against my better judgement,) I&#8217;m going to show you his picture. I am fully aware you will want to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was starting to think it might never happen but it has. My dreams are finally coming true. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m absolutely crazy about someone!  Isn&#8217;t that AWESOME???</p>
<p>And because I KNOW you guys are gonna ask, (and against my better judgement,) I&#8217;m going to show you his picture. I am fully aware you will want to know all the details, (especially after hearing me gripe about a whole bunch of Mr. Wrong&#8217;s,) but I am not going to share a lot of info right now. I hope you understand and will respect my privacy. I WILL tell you though that he is gorgeous, talented, charming, sweet and very sexy. And that he makes me really happy.</p>
<p>Ready?</p>
<p><a href="http://people.aol.com/people/galleries/0,19884,1113899_1129983_14,00.html"><strong>HERE HE IS</strong></a>.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Love</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2005/09/the-power-of-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2005 16:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaBinDaCity</dc:creator>
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I came in from working out one day and my mother had a guest. The time was 20 years ago in the South. My mother was sitting at the kitchen table with a stranger. I bounced in and stopped dead in my tracks. Both ladies laughed and my mother made the introductions.
&#8220;Jane, this is my [...]]]></description>
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<div style="clear: both" />I came in from working out one day and my mother had a guest. The time was 20 years ago in the South. My mother was sitting at the kitchen table with a stranger. I bounced in and stopped dead in my tracks. Both ladies laughed and my mother made the introductions.</p>
<p>&#8220;Jane, this is my daughter Lisa. Lisa, this is Jane. Jane just moved here from South Africa and I invited her over to get acquainted.&#8221;</p>
<p>Jane smiled at me and I smiled back. Jane was in her late 60&#8217;s and was very chic and elegantly dressed. I was in my workout gear and sweaty.</p>
<p>Jane said &#8220;It&#8217;s lovely to meet you Lisa and so gracious of your mother to invite me over.&#8221;</p>
<p>I smiled sheepishly. &#8220;Please forgive the way I look, I&#8217;ve been exercising. It&#8217;s really hot out there. And it&#8217;s nice to meet you too.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;You look healthy and fine to me.&#8221; Jane smiled.</p>
<p>We both knew in that instant that we were going to be friends. And we were. From that first meeting we adored each other on sight. Despite the age difference we always &#8220;got&#8221; each other. Even after I left the South we kept in touch and I saw or called Jane whenever I came back to visit my mother.</p>
<p>Two years ago I sent her a holiday card. In January my telephone rang.</p>
<p>&#8220;Lisa, this is Jane&#8217;s granddaughter Kate. My grandmother wanted me to call and let you know she has been in the hospital, but she got your card and she asked me to tell you that she is thinking about you and loves you very much.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Kate is she ok? What happened?&#8221; I said in a panic.</p>
<p>Kate replied. &#8220;She had a stroke and almost did not make it but I knew something was wrong when I didn&#8217;t hear from her that morning. I went to her house right away. We rushed her to the hospital in the knick of time. She is better but will need major rehab and will go to a facility soon.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m so sorry. Please give her my love and tell her I will be in touch soon.&#8221; I hung up the phone and sat in a daze for a long time.</p>
<p>The next time I saw Jane was about 6 months later when I visited her at the rehab facility. At first she looked bewildered and did not recognize me but then she finally did. We talked but it was so strange. Jane was vague and sometimes confused. She had a difficult time walking and moving around as well. It was so hard seeing her like that as she had always been so quick and intelligent. This was not the Jane I knew. I hugged and kissed her goodbye knowing it was probably the last time I would ever see her. I left and drove back to my mother&#8217;s home.</p>
<p>My mother took one look at my devastated face and said &#8220;Oh Lisa, I&#8217;m so sorry.&#8221;</p>
<p>I burst into tears and cried for an hour.</p>
<p>Another few months went by and I was working in New York. I was working long hours and fell into a hard sleep. That night I had a very vivid dream. I was at an strange diner and I looked around and there was Jane. She was platinum blonde, (as opposed to her beautiful black hair with gray strands,) and was sitting on a stool. I looked at her in disbelief.</p>
<p>&#8220;Jane, it&#8217;s Lisa, what are you doing here? Are you ok?&#8221;</p>
<p>Jane turned to me and gave me a blinding smile. &#8220;Lisa darling, I&#8217;m fine! I&#8217;m happy and healthy and all is well.&#8221;</p>
<p>Something distracted me in my dream and I turned away for a brief second. When I looked back at Jane she was gone. I woke up, sat up and thought, JANE IS DEAD. I felt curiously peaceful though cause she was no longer suffering and was herself again.</p>
<p>I went to work the next day. My cell phone rang about noon with an unfamiliar number on the screen. It was Jane&#8217;s grandaughter.</p>
<p>&#8220;Lisa, this is Kate. I wanted to let you know my grandmother died two days ago. I misplaced your business card and I just found it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I gave Kate my condolences, we chatted a bit and then I hung up. I was not the least bit surprised by the call or by the fact that Kate had just found my card. Jane had been working behind the scenes. She had come the night before to say goodbye to me, let me know she loved me, and tell me that all was well.</p>
<p>The power of love is truly amazing sometimes.</p>
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		<title>Searching for Mr. Right</title>
		<link>http://www.lisabindacity.com/2005/06/searching-for-mr-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 20:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LisaBinDaCity</dc:creator>
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The ongoing search for Mr. Right. Sometimes I wonder if it will EVER end. I never  thought it would be so hard to find the right man. &#8220;I have been dating since I was 15, I&#8217;m tired of this, where IS he???&#8221; That quote is from Charlotte in &#8220;Sex and the City.&#8221; I know [...]]]></description>
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<p>The ongoing search for Mr. Right. Sometimes I wonder if it will EVER end. I never  thought it would be so hard to find the right man. &#8220;I have been dating since I was 15, I&#8217;m tired of this, where IS he???&#8221; That quote is from Charlotte in &#8220;Sex and the City.&#8221; I know just how she feels. Dating is exhausting. I&#8217;m bored with it. There have been 4 men in my life that I believed were Mr. Right. They were not. I have watched many of my friends fall in love, get married and have children. Still being single at this point in my life was NOT THE GAME PLAN. I definitely could have &#8220;settled&#8221; several times with someone just to be married but I chose not to. I wanted to hold out for the elusive Mr. Right.</p>
<p>OK time to toot my own horn, please forgive my lack of modesty&#8230; I&#8217;m a pretty woman. I&#8217;m nice, smart and fun. People like me. I&#8217;m reasonably evolved. I&#8217;m unpretentious and very down to earth. I&#8217;m not looking for a perfect man cause there is no such thing. But I am looking for a man who despite any faults he might possess will be the perfect man for me. I want a lover and a best friend. Someone who will be there for the good and bad stuff as I will be for him. A nice guy who is funny, smart and kind. OK and the shallow moment&#8230; I must be attracted to him. It would be cool if he was drop dead gorgeous <img src='http://www.lisabindacity.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  but it&#8217;s not necessary. He just has to be attractive to me. Looks fade but the rest of the good stuff lasts. </p>
<p>I have decided to take a break from dating. I&#8217;m going to concentrate on myself for a while. Everyone tells me that is the best way to meet Mr. Right but I&#8217;m not doing it for that reason. I just want to take care of ME and then hopefully everything else will take care of itself. </p>
<p>TO BE CONTINUED&#8230;
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